<p>We talk about why it can be very valuable to question our assumptions, and we also share hacks for helping a child moving into a college dorm.  Plus we discuss a listener’s feelings of Obliger-rebellion due to the unacknowledged work she does for her family. </p> <p><strong>Resources & links related to this episode:</strong></p> <ul> <li><a href="https://www.thesinceyouaskedpodcast.com/">Listen to the new podcast <em>Since You Asked</em> with Lori Gottlieb and Gretchen Rubin</a></li> <li><em>Love Life</em> by Rob Lowe (<a href="https://amzn.to/4maq1tI">Amazon</a>, <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/15926/9781451685732">Bookshop</a>)</li> <li><a href="https://gretchenrubin.com/quiz/the-four-tendencies-quiz/">Four Tendencies quiz</a></li> <li><a href="http://happiercast.com/resources">"Clear the Decks” bingo card</a></li> <li>Elizabeth is reading: <em>We Might Just Make It After All: My Best Friendship with Kate Space </em>by Elyce Arons (<a href="https://amzn.to/4m5h58R">Amazon</a>, <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/15926/9781668069073">Bookshop</a>) </li> <li>Gretchen is reading: <em>Marry Him</em> by Lori Gottlieb (<a href="https://amzn.to/4poqBqy">Amazon</a>, <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/15926/9780451232168">Bookshop</a>)<br><br></li> </ul> <p>Get in touch: <a href="mailto:[email protected]">[email protected]</a></p> <p>Visit<a href="https://gretchenrubin.com/"> Gretchen's website</a> to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the <em>Happier </em>app.</p> <p>Find the transcript for this episode on the episode details page in the Apple Podcasts app. </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>