<p>The traditional Russian practice of “sitting on suitcases” is an excellent ritual for anyone setting off on a trip.</p> <p><strong>Resources & links related to this episode:</strong></p> <ul> <li> </ul> <p><br>Get in touch: <a href="mailto:[email protected]">[email protected]</a></p> <p>Visit<a href="https://gretchenrubin.com/"> Gretchen's website</a> to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the <em>Happier </em>app.</p> <p>Find the transcript for this episode on the episode details page in the Apple Podcasts app. </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

<p>Why is it so hard getting yourself to do what you want to do? This overview of the Four Tendencies explains why motivation works differently for different people and how understanding how you respond to expectations can make follow-through easier.</p> <p> </p> <p><strong>Resources & links related to this episode:</strong></p> <ul> <li><a href="https://gretchenrubin.com/books/the-four-tendencies/intro/">Four Tendencies Framework</a> </li> <li><a href="http://quiz.gretchenrubin.com/?_gl=1*1e3rcha*_gcl_au*MjA0OTUwNzY5Ni4xNzY3NzIwNzE1LjE0ODcwMTE2NjYuMTc2OTQ1OTc2NC4xNzY5NDU5NzY0*_ga*MTgyNTkyODU5LjE3NTIwMDk3ODQ.*_ga_7C83YBXZPT*czE3Njk0NjYxMTkkbzE2MyRnMCR0MTc2OTQ2NjExOSRqNjAkbDAkaDA.">Take the Four Tendencies quiz here </a></li> <li><a href="https://gretchenrubin.com/books/the-four-tendencies/">Order <em>The Four Tendencies</em> here</a></li> </ul> <p><br>Get in touch: <a href="mailto:[email protected]">[email protected]</a></p> <p>Visit<a href="https://gretchenrubin.com/"> Gretchen's website</a> to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the <em>Happier </em>app.</p> <p>Find the transcript for this episode on the episode details page in the Apple Podcasts app. </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

<p>We share our plans for our next “No-Spend February”—our rules, our exceptions, and what we hope to learn.   We also share a more elegant term for “squats” and discuss an interesting self-knowledge question related to the makeshift.</p> <p><strong>Resources & links related to this episode:</strong></p> <ul> <li><a href="http://happiercast.com/nospend">Join us for No-Spend February</a></li> <li><a href="https://the-happiness-project.com/">Shop the sale in The Happiness Project Shop</a></li> <li><a href="https://gretchenrubin.com/podcast/466-no-spend-february-fun-with-the-24-for-24-list-and-what-about-packaging-thats-too-nice-to-toss/">Listen to Episode 466 here</a> </li> <li><a href="https://gretchenrubin.com/podcast/475-listeners-no-spend-february-ideas-boost-happiness-by-sending-cards-and-a-quick-way-to-connect/">Listen to Episode 475 here</a> </li> <li>Elizabeth is reading: <em>Half His Age</em> by Jennette McCurdy (<a href="https://amzn.to/4jX3UqR">Amazon</a>, <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/15926/9780593723739">Bookshop</a>) </li> <li>Gretchen is rereading: <em>Gray Divorce: What We Lose and Gain from Mid-Life Splits</em> by Jocelyn Elise Crowley (<a href="https://amzn.to/4bcpsO4">Amazon</a>, <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/15926/9780520295322">Bookshop</a>) </li> </ul> <p><br>Get in touch: <a href="mailto:[email protected]">[email protected]</a></p> <p>Visit<a href="https://gretchenrubin.com/"> Gretchen's website</a> to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the <em>Happier </em>app.</p> <p>Find the transcript for this episode on the episode details page in the Apple Podcasts app. </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

<p>A modern fable is an excellent illustration of a very popular loophole used to justify breaking good habits.</p> <p><strong>Resources & links related to this episode:</strong></p> <ul> <li> </ul> <p><br>Get in touch: <a href="mailto:[email protected]">[email protected]</a></p> <p>Visit<a href="https://gretchenrubin.com/"> Gretchen's website</a> to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the <em>Happier </em>app.</p> <p>Find the transcript for this episode on the episode details page in the Apple Podcasts app. </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

<p>We talk about the impulse to save things, such as stationery or fine china, even when it makes no sense. And we also talk about the puzzling popularity of coffee-table books.</p> <p><strong>Resources & links related to this episode:</strong></p> <ul> <li><a href="http://lnkd.in/fourtendencies">Check out my new LinkedIn Learning course on the Four Tendencies</a></li> <li><a href="https://gretchenrubin.com/articles/how-to-write-your-own-personal-commandments/">How to Write Your Own Personal Commandments </a></li> <li>Join the <a href="https://gretchenrubin.com/uncategorized/join-the-move-26-in-26-challenge/">"Move 26 in '26" challenge</a></li> <li><a href="https://amzn.to/4puNXcE">Electric throw blanket</a></li> </ul> <p><br>Get in touch: <a href="mailto:[email protected]">[email protected]</a></p> <p>Visit<a href="https://gretchenrubin.com/"> Gretchen's website</a> to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the <em>Happier </em>app.</p> <p>Find the transcript for this episode on the episode details page in the Apple Podcasts app. </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

<p>In this episode, we talk about the recent death of our beloved father, Jack Craft—what we’ve experienced, what we’ve learned. We also share many tender, practical suggestions from listeners about how to manage this kind of a profound loss. </p> <p><strong>Resources & links related to this episode:</strong></p> <ul> <li><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Raymond_Carver">Raymond Carver</a>’s last book, <em>A New Path to the Waterfall</em> (<a href="https://amzn.to/3LDPbVa">Amazon</a>, <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/15926/9780871133748">Bookshop</a>)</li> <li><a href="http://happiercast.com/course">One last reminder to sign up for The Happiness Project Revisited course</a></li> <li><em><a href="https://the-happiness-project.com/products/i-want-you-to-know?srsltid=AfmBOop_d3rNX3UIIQlCeUjaDB1dFxGsmPapwhH_9z8vcIZWTSUjW0RR">I Want You to Know: My Portrait of You</a> </em></li> <li><a href="https://www.legacy.com/us/obituaries/kansascity/name/jack-craft-obituary?id=60219609">Obituary of John Charles Craft</a></li> <li>Elizabeth is reading: <em>Wolf Hall </em>by Hilary Mantel (<a href="https://amzn.to/4soqv3N">Amazon</a>, <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/15926/9781250806710">Bookshop</a>) </li> <li>Gretchen is rereading: <em>American Gods</em> by Neil Gaiman (<a href="https://amzn.to/3Ytjr8d">Amazon</a>, <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/15926/9780063081918">Bookshop</a>) </li> </ul> <p><br>Get in touch: <a href="mailto:[email protected]">[email protected]</a></p> <p>Visit<a href="https://gretchenrubin.com/"> Gretchen's website</a> to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the <em>Happier </em>app.</p> <p>Find the transcript for this episode on the episode details page in the Apple Podcasts app. </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

<p>We worked for several days on this obituary for my father. We wanted to capture his extraordinary spirit.</p> <p><strong>Resources & links related to this episode:</strong></p> <ul> <li> </ul> <p><br>Get in touch: <a href="mailto:[email protected]">[email protected]</a></p> <p>Visit<a href="https://gretchenrubin.com/"> Gretchen's website</a> to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the <em>Happier </em>app.</p> <p>Find the transcript for this episode on the episode details page in the Apple Podcasts app. </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

<p>We talk about a hack from the world of the <em>Real Housewives</em> that makes party-giving easier and more fun. We also discuss the question, “What’s an ordinary food that most people seem to like—but not you?” Plus the pleasure of a better tennis bag.</p> <p><strong>Resources & links related to this episode:</strong></p> <ul> <li> </ul> <p><br>Get in touch: <a href="mailto:[email protected]">[email protected]</a></p> <p>Visit<a href="https://gretchenrubin.com/"> Gretchen's website</a> to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the <em>Happier </em>app.</p> <p>Find the transcript for this episode on the episode details page in the Apple Podcasts app. </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

<p>We explore the value of the German custom of the Stammtisch as a fun and easy way to strengthen friendships. We also share dozens of compelling one-word themes chosen by listeners for 2026—plus a strategy for elevating everyday life.</p> <p><strong>Resources & links related to this episode:</strong></p> <ul> <li><a href="http://happiercast.com/move26">Learn more about Move 26 join us here</a></li> <li>Elizabeth is reading: <em>The Wonder Boy of Whistle Stop</em> by Fannie Flagg (<a href="https://amzn.to/4szMgNX">Amazon</a>, <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/15926/9780593133866">Bookshop</a>) </li> <li>Gretchen is rereading: <em>Christmas in Austin</em> by Benjamin Markovits (<a href="https://amzn.to/4qxRo3X">Amazon</a>, <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/15926/9780571365968">Bookshop</a>) </li> </ul> <p><br>Get in touch: <a href="mailto:[email protected]">[email protected]</a></p> <p>Visit<a href="https://gretchenrubin.com/"> Gretchen's website</a> to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the <em>Happier </em>app.</p> <p>Find the transcript for this episode on the episode details page in the Apple Podcasts app. </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

<p>When we lose our wallet, we think finding it would make us happy forever, but once found, we quickly start taking it for granted again. Colette said of her life, "What a beautiful life. It's a pity I didn't notice it sooner." But we don’t have to lose our wallet to note the joy of possessing it.</p> <p>Get in touch: <a href="mailto:[email protected]">[email protected]</a></p> <p>Visit<a href="https://gretchenrubin.com/"> Gretchen's website</a> to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the <em>Happier </em>app.</p> <p>Find the transcript for this episode on the episode details page in the Apple Podcasts app. </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>