<p>"What makes someone “the one”? There is so much pressure tied into that question. Instead, it might be better to ask: how can we focus on recognising the key pillars of long-lasting, fulfilling love? In today’s episode, we explore some fundamental characteristics so you can discern whether they are “the one” for you, while also acknowledging that our soulmates are often built, rather than found.</p> <p>We explore:</p> <ul> <li>Unpicking the “one” narrative</li> <li>The difference between initial spark and lasting connection</li> <li>Love as a mutual, ongoing choice</li> <li>The fundamental pillars of long lasting relationships - shared values, emotional proximity, and reciprocal effort</li> <li>The role of intuition vs anxiety</li> <li>The need for authenticity and growth within a partnership</li> </ul> <p>If you’re feeling the pressure to pick the ‘right’ person, or want to learn about the fundamentals of deep connection, this episode is for you.</p> <p><br>Listen to my NEW PODCAST, Mantra: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ckds0BoJDDpODInN9cWcc?si=b6ad5d555c1940e0">https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ckds0BoJDDpODInN9cWcc?si=b6ad5d555c1940e0</a> <br> <br>Follow Jemma on Instagram: @jemmasbeg<br>Follow the podcast on Instagram: @thatpsychologypodcast<br>For business: [email protected] <br> <br>The Psychology of your 20s is not a substitute for professional mental health help. If you are struggling, distressed or require personalised advice, please reach out to your doctor or a licensed psychologist. "</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>