
The Stories That Shape Us: Why Your Narrative Defines Your Future | EP 672
31 minutes
Hosted by John Miles
Episode Description
<p>What is the story you’re telling yourself right now?</p><p>It may not feel like it, but every single one of us is living inside a story. Psychologists call it a <em>self-narrative</em> — the ongoing script that explains who we are, how we got here, and where we’re headed next. These stories shape what we notice, what we ignore, and what we believe is possible.</p><p>If your inner story says, <em>“I’m not enough,”</em> then every critique, silence, or setback feels like proof of inadequacy. But if your story says, <em>“I am resilient, I am growing,”</em> those same experiences become evidence of strength. The circumstances don’t change. The story does.</p><p>In this final episode of my <em>Decoding Humanity</em> series, we’re looking at the power of story: why it matters, how it’s formed, and how you can begin to rewrite it using the S.T.O.R.Y. framework.</p><p>Full shownotes HERE</p><p><strong>Go Deeper: The Ignited Life Substack</strong></p><p>If this episode stirred something in you, The Ignited Life is where the transformation continues. Each week, John shares behind-the-scenes insights, deeper dives into the episodes, workbooks, science-backed tools, and personal reflections to help you turn intention into action.</p><p>Get the<strong> full companion workbook</strong> at <a href="https://www.theignitedlife.net/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">TheIgnitedLife.net</a></p><p>Full episode on YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@JohnRMiles" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/@JohnRMiles</a></p><p>Listen on Apple Podcasts, <a href="https://spotify.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Spotify</a>, or wherever you get your podcasts</p><p>Everyone deserves to feel valued and important. Show it by wearing it: <a href="https://startmattering.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://startmattering.com/</a></p><p>See Privacy Policy at <a href="https://art19.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://art19.com/privacy</a> and California Privacy Notice at <a href="https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info</a>.</p>
Special Guests
- Charles Duhigg
- Donald Miller
- Joel Beasley
- Sandy Yosipovic