
278: Why We Fear Rest: Unpacking the Guilt Behind Taking a Break with Dr. Neeta Bhushan
21 minutes
Hosted by Dr. Neeta Bhushan
Episode Description
<p>Hey Brave Table fam! Today, we’re diving into a topic so many of us wrestle with — rest! Why is it that we feel guilty when we take time for ourselves? Why does resting sometimes make us feel lazy or unproductive? Growing up in a household where rest was synonymous with "not enough," I get it. In this episode, I share my personal journey with redefining rest, unpacking those old narratives, and learning to truly savor the slow. I also reflect on insights from Dr. Avanti Singh, who reminds us of the dangers of constantly "pushing" — especially around the holidays when the pressure to "do it all" can feel overwhelming. So let's get comfortable, release the guilt, and step into a mindset where rest is not just okay — it’s necessary. Let’s explore this together and make peace with rest as part of our growth.</p>
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<p><strong>What you'll get out of this episode…</strong> </p>
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<p>Rest is an essential part of productivity, creativity, and well-being.</p>
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<p>Learning to Let Go</p>
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<p>Savor the Slow</p>
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<p>Rest creates space for miracles and unexpected opportunities</p>
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<p>Simple rituals remind us to slow down and embrace the present</p>
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<p><strong>TIMESTAMPS</strong></p>
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<p>[00:00:00] - Intro to the Brave Table</p>
<p>[00:04:00] - Personal story: Family, rest, and health challenges</p>
<p>[00:10:00] - Can we savor the slow and embrace boredom?</p>
<p>[00:16:00] - The power of letting go and manifesting through rest</p>
<p>[00:19:00] - Reframing rest with the “That Sucked, Now What?” Affirmation Deck</p>
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Special Guests
- Dr. Avanti Singh