<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Episode 505 – What is Recovery?</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span>Today we have Dave. He is 46 and lives in Boston. He took his last drink on March 5^th, 2023.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><strong><u><span>Sponsors mentioned in this episode:</span></u></strong></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><strong><u><span><span> </span></span></u></strong></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><a href="https://www.betterhelp.com/get-started/?go=true&slug=elevator&utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=2687&utm_term=elevator&promo_code=elevator&landing_page_img=https://i.imgur.com/qYHezjI.jpg&aff_channel=podcast&discount_rate=10&discount_period=P1M&date_interval=P1M&percentage_off=10&amount=1&amount_spelled_out=one&unit=month&gor=start"> <strong><span>Better Help</span></strong></a> <span><span> </span>- code ELEVATOR</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span>There are two spots left on our next Alcohol-Free travel trip to</span> <a href="https://www.recoveryelevator.com/vietnam/"><strong><span>Vietnam</span></strong></a><span>. This upcoming January 9^th-20^th, 2025, we’re heading to this incredible Southeast Asia paradise for 10 days and 11 nights with 25 travelers who are done nursing hangovers.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span>On January 1^st, 2025, join us for</span> <a href="https://www.recoveryelevator.com/restore/"><strong><span>Dry January</span></strong></a><span>. We meet 14 times as a group during the moth and the session days are Sundays, Mondays and Thursdays.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span>And in February, we are doing out first ever alcohol-free</span> <a href="https://www.recoveryelevator.com/afsongwriting/"><strong><span> Singer/Songwriter</span></strong></a> <span>course. In this six week course you’ll learn all about the song writing process, hear from professional musicians about how they write songs, and you’ll write and perfect your own song during the course. Experience with an instrument is recommended to required as this is not a “how to play and instrument” course.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span>[03:32] Thoughts from Paul:</span></strong></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span>Paul shares that when he first began his alcohol-free journey, the word “recovery” was loaded for him. He initially didn’t want anything to do with it and didn’t really understand what it meant.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span>In a post from Café RE a member named Adam shared a little about what recovery means to him. Paul expands on that commenting about what recovery means to him as well. Russell Brand sums it up pretty well by saying we are “recovering the person we are meant to be.” We have no chance of doing this with alcohol in our lives, or at least, many of us don’t.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span>There is no right or wrong way to ditch the booze and take what you want and leave the rest. Paul says he isn’t suggesting building your own program from scratch at the beginning. Pick a program or community and give it your all. If there is something that scares you, that’s where you need to go. Recovery is uncomfortable at first, but definite worth it.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span>[08:36] Paul introduces Dave:</span></strong></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span> </span></strong></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span>Dave was born and raised in the Boston area. He has been married for 20 years and has two girls that are 16 and 13 years old. He enjoys all things sports including golf and spending time supporting his daughter who plays hockey. He also enjoys reading and exercise.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span>Dave grew up in a tight knit family with a father that had chronic illness. He says that his father’s illness as well as the illnesses of other family members really shaped his life, and he never felt safe.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span>Dave witnessed his parents drink, but never saw them drunk. He avoided drinking throughout high school as a rule follower and it created anxiety for him when he did.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span>In college, he did drink a bit on the weekends, but nothing crazy. Dave says once he recognized that the drinking stopped some anxiety, that is when a problem developed. He would drink casually on the weekdays and more on the weekends. As life began to be a little mo