In this candid conversation, Dr. K talks with Alexandra and Andrea Botez—sisters, chess streamers, and co-creators of @BotezLive. Which is about growing up competitive, finding their voices online, and supporting each other through the ups and downs of fame. They open up about their family history, early rivalries, and how streaming changed their relationship. Topics include: How sibling rivalry pushed them to excel (and sometimes clash) The challenges of building a career in the public eye Navigating burnout, criticism, and high expectations Balancing independence with family loyalty Why they see each other as “ride-or-die” partners today It’s an honest, funny, and heartfelt look at the bond between sisters who’ve turned competition into connection. Both on and off the chessboard. HG Coaching : https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3Szt HG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Dr. K sits down with fitness creator @Scottykfitness to explore what it really takes to grow—physically, emotionally, and mentally. They talk through struggles with identity, confidence, and the internal roadblocks that get in the way of becoming your best self. Topics include: How childhood experiences shape adult insecurities The connection between physical fitness and mental resilience Breaking free from fear, shame, and self-judgment Why the “best self” isn’t a destination, but a practice Real stories about growth, setbacks, and showing up authentically It’s a grounded, motivating conversation about personal development from two people who’ve done the work. This episode is perfect for anyone looking to level up in life, not just the gym. HG Coaching : https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3Szt HG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this special episode, Dr. K is joined by Dr. Kirk Honda and Dr. Michaela Thordarson for a head-to-head comparison of how real therapists and AI (ChatGPT) respond to mental health questions. Together, they react to anonymous community submissions and live prompts, discussing whether AI can truly replicate the depth, nuance, and humanity of therapy. Topics covered include: - A mother struggling to reconnect with her adult children - The limits of therapy for people with deep, unmet emotional needs - What happens when someone feels therapy has “failed”The difference between validation and real change - Whether AI-generated empathy can ever match real human insight - You’ll hear the doctors critique AI’s answers, reflect on their own therapeutic styles, and debate where AI might help or harm in mental health care. A thoughtful, honest look at what therapy is (and isn’t) in a world where AI is changing everything. HG Coaching : https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3Szt HG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful episode, Dr. K talks with developer and content creator The Primeagen about burnout, emotional growth, and breaking generational cycles. What begins as a conversation about work stress evolves into a deep, personal discussion about fatherhood, loss, and the struggle to show up when life feels overwhelming. Topics include: Prime’s experience with burnout in the tech world and how rediscovering passion helped him recover The emotional impact of losing his father at a young age and discovering pornography as a child Navigating grief, parenting with intention, and trying to be the father he never had A vulnerable exploration of emotional suppression, introspection, and the challenge of expressing feelings Reflections on what it means to be a “good parent” in a world full of imperfect choices This episode is honest, raw, and full of meaningful moments—perfect for anyone thinking about healing, parenting, or how past pain shapes present purpose. HG Coaching : https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3Szt HG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Dr. K explores the deep psychological roots of abandonment trauma and how it can shape a person’s personality, perception, and relationships. Through live questions and community voicemails, he shares actionable strategies for healing from early trauma, building healthier relationships, and reconnecting with desire. Key moments include: What “core trauma” really means and how it forms our personality How abandonment can lead to dissociation, helplessness, and survival-based behaviors Tips for supporting siblings raised by narcissistic parents How to break up in a way that minimizes emotional harm A deep dive into the fear of desire and how past disappointments can cause us to suppress our wants Whether you’re working through your own trauma or trying to support someone else, this episode offers thoughtful guidance, real stories, and grounded advice for growth. Reserve YOUR seat for Dr. Honda's "Healing from Narcissistic Parents" Workshop on 07/27: https://bit.ly/4486Pa4 HG Coaching : https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3Szt HG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Dr. K dives into the complex world of narcissistic parenting. What it is, how it shapes family dynamics, and what you can do if you've been affected. Through clinical insight and real-world examples, he breaks down the patterns, emotional impact, and healing strategies. You’ll hear: Clear definitions and real-life traits of narcissistic parents How these relationships affect self-worth, boundaries, and trust Guidance on setting boundaries and reclaiming your identity Live coaching moments where listeners seek clarity and support This is a thoughtful, compassionate look at a difficult topic. Perfect for anyone healing from toxic family experiences or trying to make sense of their upbringing. Reserve YOUR seat for Dr. Honda's "Healing from Narcissistic Parents" Workshop on 07/27: https://bit.ly/4486Pa4 HG Coaching : https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3Szt HG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Dr. K dives into some truly questionable relationship advice circulating online, reacting in real-time to clips, comments, and memes. He breaks down why some tips are problematic, what makes certain advice toxic, and how to find healthier perspectives. You’ll catch: Moments where Dr. K calls out advice that’s misleading, harmful, or just plain bad Insight into what makes relationship guidance actually helpful Practical alternatives and real tips for setting boundaries, communicating better, and building trust A mix of sharp critique and empathetic coaching If you’ve ever rolled your eyes at cringe relationship tips, this one’s for you. It's entertaining, insightful, and grounded in what really helps relationships thrive. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Dr. K sits down with YouTube creator LaurDIY to talk about managing anxiety while chasing big goals. They get into how anxiety shows up, the fears that hold you back, and real ways to push through. You’ll hear: LaurDIY’s personal experience juggling creativity and mental health What anxiety really feels like and why it stalls progress Dr. K’s suggestions for calming your inner critic Practical tools you can start using today, like shifting your focus, structuring your routine, and practicing kindness toward yourself If anxiety has ever slowed you down even when youre being really productive. This chat offers honest stories and useful advice to help you keep moving forward. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Dr. K dives into real voicemails sent in by viewers—many deeply personal, sometimes challenging. You’ll hear him respond in real-time, offering coaching, empathy, and razor-sharp insight. It’s honest, human, and often very powerful. Highlights include: Live coaching on issues listeners brought in anonymously Emotional moments where people shared things they’d never said out loud Dr. K’s balance of compassion and practical advice If you’ve ever avoided talking about something hard, this episode shows why sometimes speaking up and someone listening can be a turning point. This Episode on YouTube: http://bit.ly/4nDHMTW HG Coaching : https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3Szt HG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Dr. K takes on a question that sparks a lot of debate: can porn ever be healthy? He explores what makes something “healthy,” how porn affects the brain, and whether there’s a way to engage with it without harm. This isn’t just a yes-or-no conversation. Dr. K breaks down: The psychology behind why people turn to porn How it can impact motivation, relationships, and mental health The difference between mindful use and compulsive habits What a “healthy” relationship with porn might even look like Whether you’re curious, skeptical, or just trying to understand your own habits better, this episode offers an honest look at a complicated topic—without shame. Reserve YOUR seat for Dr. Honda's "Healing from Narcissistic Parents" Workshop on 07/27: bit.ly/4nxiOWd⁠ Puer Aeternus Resources: ⁠bit.ly/3G8KUGL This Episode on YouTube: ⁠bit.ly/4lejMW4⁠ HG Coaching : https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3Szt HG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices