Does This Season of White Lotus Suck? PLUS John Bukaty Interviews Dave PATREON TEASER!
Does This Season of White Lotus Suck? PLUS John Bukaty Interviews Dave PATREON TEASER!
14 minutes
Hosted by Dave

Episode Description

<p>THESE ARE NOTES ON THE EPISODE - NOT THE TEASER!</p><h3>📝 <strong>Show Notes:</strong></h3><p>🧠 <strong>Childhood Chaos</strong></p><p>Born in NYC, nearly died of a staph infection</p><p>Fell off a table and cracked his skull at 8 months old</p><p>Walked home <i>alone</i> at 3 years old 💥</p><p>Deep TV addiction starts young (shoutout to MTV, Different Strokes & Give Me a Break)</p><p>🎭 <strong>Early Identity Stuff</strong></p><p>Shirt chewing, sugar binging, and fake depression for attention</p><p>Didn’t want a bar mitzvah: “It’s not your party, it’s my party.”</p><p>Too insecure to get lifted in the chair at his own bar mitzvah 😬</p><p>Played harmonica in a ska band called <i>The Percolators</i></p><p>🍹 <strong>First Drug Stories</strong></p><p>First drunk = 16 screwdrivers at summer camp → blackout, vomit, shame</p><p>Never got into booze, but took acid at a Dead show before ever trying weed</p><p>Eventually... heroin, methadone, weed, and the long road home</p><p>🎨 <strong>Art, Fear & Flow</strong></p><p>MTV intern in high school, obsessed with music and creativity</p><p>Paralyzed by fear, self-doubt, and a deep need to be authentic</p><p>Big art nerd: Kandinsky, Mondrian, Jackson Pollock, Bob Dylan, Richard Pousette-Dart 🎨</p><p>🌞 <strong>Spirituality, Recovery & the Dopey DNA</strong></p><p>Wanted spirituality before he had it</p><p>“The Sunlight of the Spirit” and the resentment trap</p><p>Early recovery = <i>doing it because he had to</i></p><p>Found real connection through service, comedy, and storytelling</p><p>🎙️ <strong>The Real Dopey</strong></p><p>It’s not just about drugs — it’s <i>love</i>, dumb shit, and keeping people company</p><p>Letting your freak flag fly, creating community, and making people laugh</p><p>Dave’s dream: Dopey TV show, doc series, global recovery adventures, Keith Richards in a chair at DopeyCon 🤘</p><p>“I just want to make something worth putting in your ears.”</p><p>💔 <strong>Final Thoughts</strong></p><p>On grief, fatherhood, fear, flow, and evolution</p><p>Bukaty calls Dave out on blind spots</p><p>Dave: “I like the idea of displacing my father and taking over the apartment.” 😂</p><p>Tribute to Annie Ellie and the Dopey Nation: “It feeds the show. It <i>is</i> the show.”</p><p>💌 Got thoughts? Send 'em: <strong>[email protected]</strong><br>👕 Rep the show: <a href="https://www.dopeypodcast.com/">dopeypodcast.com</a><br>📞 Leave a voicemail, join a Zoom, get involved<br>🧸 <strong>Stay Strong Dopey Nation</strong><br>💀 And fucking toodles for Chris</p><p> </p>

Special Guests

  • John Bukaty